How to deal with negative people?

We should deal with negative people with patience and good behavior while focusing on the positive aspects of life.

Quranic Answer

The Quran does not explicitly address how to deal with negative people, but we can draw insights from various verses. For instance, in Surah Fussilat, verse 34, Allah says: 'And not equal are the good deed and the bad. Repel by that [deed] which is better; then indeed, the one between whom and you is enmity will become like an old friend.' This verse encourages patience and good deeds. When faced with negative individuals, we should respond with positivity and strive to create a positive atmosphere around us with our good conduct. Another strategy is to strengthen ourselves mentally and spiritually when around negative people. Furthermore, there are verses that emphasize unity and togetherness among believers. For example, in Surah Al-Imran, verse 103, it says: 'And hold firmly to the rope of Allah all together and do not become divided.' This emphasizes the importance of unity which can help us stay shielded from negative influences. Ultimately, one of the best ways to control the impact of negativity is to focus on the positives and the blessings in our lives. Verses that encourage gratitude and the recognition of others’ good qualities can also provide guidance.

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Short Story

One day, a man named Hasan faced negative individuals in his community. Instead of responding with anger and disrespect, he chose to treat them with love and kindness. Gradually, his behavior led those negative individuals to change their attitudes and move towards positivity. Hasan realized that love could transform others' spirits.

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