The Quran emphasizes the importance of politeness in speech, and expressing bitter truth should be done considerately.
In the Holy Quran, the value of kind speech and politeness in communication is greatly emphasized. Allah says in Surah Luqman, verse 19: 'And beware of using bad speech; verily, the best of speech is what is in the heart of a knowledgeable person.' This verse indicates that politeness in speech, especially in addressing bitter truths, is of significant importance. Furthermore, in Surah Al-Imran, verse 159, God commands His Messenger to treat people kindly and politely: 'And by mercy from Allah, you were lenient with them.' This verse reminds us that interaction with others, whether in pleasant or unpleasant situations, should be coupled with kindness and respect, even when harsh truths exist. Therefore, it can be argued that politeness in language is consistently emphasized in the Quran, and in situations where a bitter truth lies, finding a way to express it gently and respectfully can lead to more positive effects. Being courteous in expression reflects a person's noble character and aligns with Islamic and ethical principles. Thus, while bitter truths may be necessary at times, how they are communicated should always embody courtesy and respect.
And beware of using bad speech; verily, the best of speech is what is in the heart of a knowledgeable person.
And by mercy from Allah, you were lenient with them.
One day in a village, there was a man who always spoke bitter truths to others. He thought that telling the truth at any cost was right. One day, a child approached him and asked why he always spoke harshly. The man realized that his lack of politeness drove people away. He decided to try and express the truths gently and politely, and in this way, his relationships improved.