Training children in patience requires time and creating a suitable environment. Furthermore, Quranic stories can be used to teach patience.
In the Holy Quran, the emphasis on patience is highlighted as one of the prominent traits of believers. Allah says in Surah Al-Baqarah, verse 153, 'O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.' This verse indicates that patience is among the attributes that, alongside prayer, assists individuals. To train children in patience, it is important to create an appropriate environment and provide them with suitable examples through actions and speech. Teaching patience requires time and the patience of the parents themselves as well. For instance, you could teach your child how to maintain their calm while waiting for something, and instead of feeling frustrated, they should continue to wait. Additionally, using Quranic stories or tales where patience is exercised can serve as influential tools for teaching. Also, in Surah Al-Imran, verse 200, Allah states, 'So be patient and stand firm and be steadfast in your support of one another.' This verse clearly emphasizes the necessity of patience and perseverance. Creating a free space for open dialogue and encouraging the expression of feelings can help your child develop patience in challenging situations.
O you who have believed, seek help through patience and prayer. Indeed, Allah is with the patient.
O you who have believed, be patient and endure and remain stationed and fear Allah that you may be successful.
One day, a father and his son were sitting in the garden when they noticed a tree being uprooted. The father said, 'Look, my son, this tree needs patience to grow and bear delicious fruits. We must also, like this tree, wait patiently to achieve the best results.' This dialogue helped his son learn an important lesson about patience from his father.