Egotism not only distances us from the straight path but also leads to the establishment of deceptive and artificial relationships. This can invoke God's wrath and punishment in the Hereafter.
In the Holy Quran, the theme of egotism and its dangers is addressed indirectly. Egotism or arrogance is about feeling superiority over others. In Surah Luqman, verse 18, Allah warns us not to consider ourselves superior under any circumstances: 'And turn not your cheek [in contempt] toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does not like everyone self-deluded and boastful.' This verse admonishes us against egotism and pride, illustrating that such behavior not only invites disfavor from Allah but distances us from our true selves. One of the negative consequences of egotism is that individuals often establish relationships that are deceptive and artificial instead of positive and constructive ones. Egotistical people are more concerned with drawing attention and admiration from others, which leads them to focus on their appearance while neglecting spirituality and morality. Furthermore, in Surah Al-Imran, verse 188, Allah states that some people may find joy in their appearance and wealth in this world, but in reality, they face a great punishment in the Hereafter. Therefore, it can be concluded that egotism not only undermines high moral qualities but also leads us away from the true and divine path.
And turn not your cheek [in contempt] toward people and do not walk through the earth exultantly. Indeed, Allah does not like everyone self-deluded and boastful.
Never think that those who rejoice for what they have acquired and love to be praised for what they did not do are in safety from the punishment; and for them is a painful punishment.
One day, a man named Mehdi discussed virtuous traits during a gathering with his friends. He complained about the egotism of certain individuals. One of his friends replied that egotism not only hinders success in life but also destroys friendly relations. Mehdi pondered this advice and decided to focus more on listening to others rather than emphasizing his superiority. This change not only led to new friendships but also provided an opportunity for his personal growth.